Sep 07

A real gentleman has mastered the art of etiquette under any circumstances and always shows impeccable manners. It all starts with a successful first impression for which you will not have a second chance. Especially in business, it is always the entire appearance of the other person that is perceived and assessed. Therefore, you should pay attention to your posture, facial expression, gestures, voice, and language, as well as well cared-for hair, hands and teeth. Wellbeing means surety. Healthy self-confidence is just as beneficial as goal-oriented, positive charisma. The most important thing, however, is your authenticity: always stay true to yourself – your personal style reflects your profile.

Smile and show enthusiasm

The first impression

A happy smile opens hearts and doors. Your heart-felt enthusiasm for people, issues, and projects makes you a lovable human being. This is what you radiate, even without talking. Tactfully display as much justifiable interest in a discussion as you can. Your whole appearance should be a harmonious whole reflecting your personality.

Beware of stumbling blocks

Irrespective of whether in everyday business or private life – try not to put your foot in it with regard to style. Never point at people with an outstretched finger or permanently stare at, bad-mouth or obviously whisper about others in restaurants. Do not interrupt your counterpart – rather distinguish yourself as an attentive listener. Always be honest and direct. Every masquerade is unveiled sooner or later.

Make sure to maintain eye contact

Your environment perceives practically everything, be it verbal or nonverbal. If possible, maintain eye contact with your counterpart – this makes you likeable. Most of your body postures reveal a lot about your personality. It is important that both of your feet remain firmly and securely planted on the ground. This reveals your stability, both in life and with regard to an opinion. Never stay on the edge of an event but happily dive right in. And should you ever be at a loss: simply take a good look around and let your common sense guide you.

What is important for you when you meet somebody for the first time?

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Aug 31

A real gentleman has mastered the art of etiquette under any circumstances and always shows impeccable manners. Dress codes are a science in their own right. They range from casual to casually formal to formal, and from very formal to highly official and highly festive. Not to forget are special cases like traditional dress and uniforms. It is important that your clothing always fits the event, the circumstances, your age, and your physique. Contrasts (black-white) generally seem more professional than combinations of the same color. Effective esteem: adhere to dress codes at all times.

The most important dress codes

Leisure time: single-breasted jacket, shirt/polo shirt, no tie, calf socks
Business meetings:
classic single/double-breasted suit, single-colored shirt, silk tie, knee socks
Official business meeting:
dark single/double-breasted suit, white shirt, silk tie, knee socks
Evening gala:
black tuxedo, silk bow-tie, cummerbund, white tuxedo shirtBall/reception/white tie: black single-breasted tail-coat, white tuxedo shirt, white hand-tied silk bow-tie

Beware of stumbling blocks

Irrespective of whether in everyday business or private life – try not to put your foot in it with regard to style. Ties with cartoon characters, childish batik patterns or over-dimensional company logos have no place in the business world. Clothing should not be too tight, too loose, or too old-fashioned. Visibly naked calves, white or patterned socks, brown shoes with a black suit, or suspenders with evening wear are also taboo.

First impressions are decisive

Score from the get-go! Make sure that packaging and contents appear identical. In addition to perfect head-to-toe hygiene, you should keep an eye on the following key aspects: the length of your jacket covers your derriere; your tie touches your belt buckle; trouser pockets should only contain whatever is absolutely necessary; shoes, belt and socks form a single-colored unit; double-breasted jackets are open when seated and closed when standing, and single-colored shirts are ideally combined. And should you ever be at a loss, simply let your good taste and common sense guide you.
How do you dress?

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