A real gentleman has mastered the art of etiquette under any circumstances and always shows impeccable manners. In a business context, the greeting order is based on position, age and gender. If you find it difficult to define the greeting hierarchy, you may of course deviate from this rule and just shake hands with one person after the other. In private society life, the arriving party always greets first – while on the road, it is the person who first sees an acquaintance. A simple nod or smile is sufficient for a casual encounter.

Accommodating no matter what

The protagonists, circumstances and situations at the location ultimately determine the greeting order: position – age – gender. The most senior or oldest person or the lady is greeted and welcomed first.

Beware of stumbling blocks

Irrespective of whether in everyday business or private life – try not to put your foot in it with regard to style. This includes prematurely extending your hand while simultaneously disregarding any hierarchies, leaving your left hand in your skirt or trouser pocket, or introducing yourself with your academic titles or honors.

Esteem at all levels

A correct greeting denotes esteem. Getting up from a sitting position not only means good manners but is an absolute must – for both men and women. A short, light handshake creates closeness and trust. Looking your counterpart in the eye with a friendly smile can break the ice. The correctly pronounced name will definitely help in opening the doors of trust even wider. Talking about doors: a customer or visitor should never have to open or close the doors – this is always the host’s job. And should you ever be at a loss: simply let your respect and common sense guide you.

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