A real gentleman has mastered the art of etiquette under any circumstances and always shows impeccable manners. A man will generally allow a woman to take precedence. However, when entering a restaurant, it is the man or host who leads the way. The woman leads the way when leaving a restaurant, bar or club. The same applies when climbing stairs – be it in a stairway or on an observation tower. When going back down, the man leads the way.

Clever is who remains polite

Persons in positions of authority or superiors generally take precedence over those in lower positions: the guest before the host, the boss before the employee, the older person before the younger one. However, should you be given precedence, accept this polite gesture immediately and without causing a stir.

Beware of stumbling blocks
Irrespective of whether in everyday business or private life – try not to put your foot in it with regard to style. Jostlers always leave a bad impression, whether at the buffet, the ticket machine, the pay booth, or in traffic. Even if it is a matter of getting into a vehicle or onto public transport: allow everyone to get off first before getting on yourself. The same applies to doors and entrances – always let someone go out first before entering. Be patient and allow your good manners to speak for themselves. By the way: which is the seat of honor in a private car or a taxi? In the case of several passengers, seating is arranged in such a way that the person who pays can also claim the seat of honor on the front passenger seat.

Appreciated attention
In the business world, “ladies first” has become almost unusual today. However, it is no faux pas to occasionally allow a lady to take precedence with a friendly gesture: be it when getting in or out of a lift or vehicle (car, taxi, bus, tram, train, coach), when standing in line, at the ticket counter, or at the service counter of a shop. And should you ever be at a loss: simply remain as gallant and forbearing as possible and let your common sense guide you.

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